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How To Know if He's Really Likes You?

  1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he leans towards you. Notice if he shows off in your presence. For example:
    • He may approach you and try to impress you, or get your attention by getting in your personal space. If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back. If he ever says, “hey watch this” or something else there’s a big chance he likes you. A bad habit that people sometimes do is tried to put other boys down to make them look good.
  2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he’ll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don’t like him (or vice versa). If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
    • His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
  3. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his legs if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things – all are good signs of a guy liking you.
  4. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. Notice the way he treats you – does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It’s natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren’t attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
  5. Check for signs of nervousness. Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
  6. Smile- A big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction.
  7. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he’s interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you’re around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence – do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t? If so, then there’s a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
  8. Have a friend ask him. Try to get someone who is basically unknown to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls – the conversation doesn’t necessarily have to involve you, but you could ask your friend to drop subtle hints, or try in any way possible to find about anything they can about his feelings towards you.
  9. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you – it can ruin the situation if he hasn’t got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
  10. Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with “haha, nice, so-and-so” it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with “haha, nice.” The second doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
  11. Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he’ll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you – but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
    12. Notice these tell-tale signs:
  • If he wants to talk to you all the time.
  • If he starts acting nicer when you’re around him.
  • If he says yes to all the things you ask him to do.
  • If he treats you differently to other girls.
  • If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh.
  • If he acts immature around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
  • If he seems to always want to hang out with you.
  • If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you.
  • If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles.
  • If he tries to make you laugh, or if he tries to copy you.
  • If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you.
  • If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible, or tends to look around and stop when he finds you.
  • If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him.
  • If he goes out of his way to talk to you, for example if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.
  • If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you.
  • If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party.
  • If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back.
  • If he talks to you and wants to know how you’re doing.
  • If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends.
  • If he asks about you to your friends when you’re not around.
  • If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.


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Sabtu, 30 November 2013 Label:
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Orang-orang terhebat.

Jum'at, 29 November 2013

Hujan sudah membasahi bumi pagi tadi. Ketika semua orang bersiap untuk pergi melakukan aktivitas sehari-harinya. Termasuk aku; pergi ke sekolah. Ku langkahkan kaki kecil ini dengan semangat menuju sekolah yang tak cukup jauh letaknya dari tempat tinggalku. Kira-kira hanya berjarak 100m. Pagi ini, seperti biasa, aku masuk ke dalam sebuah ruangan yang baru berisikan beberapa orang saja. Tapi, kira-kira 15menit kemudian, ruangan ini berubah. Bisikan, obrolan, canda, tawa, mulai terdengar. Mereka, penghuni ruangan ini, adalah orang-orang hebat. 

Sekali lagi, orang-orang hebat.

Mereka bukan Superman yang memiliki kekuatan super untuk membantu orang-orang melawan kejahatan. Bukan Pahlawan yang berjuang keras seluruh jiwa raga demi mempertahankan kemerdekaan negara. Bukan Presiden yang selalu berpikir bagaimana cara memimpin sebuah negara dan rakyatnya agar selalu sejahtera. Bukan. Bukan itu. Mereka hanya manusia biasa. Remaja, pelajar Sekolah Menengah Atas tingkat akhir. Yang sedang dipusingkan dengan segala sesuatu mengenai masa depannya. Karena, mereka sedang berada di titik penentuan. Tapi, asal kalian tau, segalanya itu tak pernah mereka sia-siakan. Semangat mereka terus mengalir. Demi cita-cita mereka, demi masa depan mereka.

Betapa hebatnya mereka.

Sebuah perjalanan panjang namun terasa singkat, telah mereka jalani selama ini. Persahabatan yang indah mengemas kehidupan mereka; dan aku masuk ke dalamnya, menjadi sebuah momentum yang sangat berharga. Mewarnai lika-liku keseharian di sekolah. Suka, duka, semangat, menyerah, menang, kalah; pernah dirasakan. Tapi itu bukan apa-apa. Itu semua bukan hal besar yang membuat persahabatan indah  itu hancur.

Kurang hebat apa, mereka?

Aku, sebagai saksi kehidupan mereka, yang beruntung bisa masuk ke dalamnya. Aku, sebagai jawaban dari kehebatan mereka, yang tiada pernah mereka bosan memotivasi dan terus mendongkrak semangat dalam diri ini. Aku, salah salah satu bagian dari mereka, yang bisa merasakan kehangatan sebuah persahabatan yang tumbuh di dalamnya. Aku, dan mereka, selalu berharap akan sebuah keajaiban yang membuat pertemuan ini, persahabatan ini, persaudaraan ini, tak pernah berpisah.

Apakah aku, dan mereka, bisa?

Aku tak yakin akan hal itu. Langkah gontai pulang sekolah membuatku semakin pasrah. Sebuah kenyataan yang harus aku terima tentang mereka, kenyataan yang..............menyedihkan. Hari ini, mungkin terakhir kalinya aku bisa bertemu wajah semangat mereka di pagi hari dalam sebuah ruangan belajar yang sama. Mungkin terakhir kalinya aku melihat celoteh dan tingkah laku mereka yang seperti biasa aku lihat. Aku belum ikhlas.......... Apa benar hari ini terakhir? Kapan lagi aku bisa menghabiskan waktu bersama mereka? Jika sudah berpisah nanti, dimana aku bisa bertemu orang-orang hebat seperti mereka?


Wahai "hari terakhir", tolong sampaikan bahwa aku menyayangi mereka. Aku sangat bahagia bersama mereka. Aku ingin terus menghabiskan hari-hariku bersama mereka; orang-orang terhebat.




Bagian dari kehidupan orang-orang hebat, Yunita, yang akan merindukan sosok-sosoknya.

Jumat, 29 November 2013 Label: ,
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RINDU


Jum’at, 8 November 2013 17:52 pm


                “Hai, apa kabar? Masih ingat aku?” pertanyaan ini ku tujukan untuk semua orang. Semua orang yang………………………….dekat dan akrab denganku, dulu. Yang kini entah berada dimana, sedang apa, dan tak tau apakah masih ingat denganku atau tidak. Aku rindu kamu, kalian, dan mereka, hey. Apakah kita bisa bertemu kembali? Apakah kita bisa berkumpul kembali? Apakah kita bisa bercanda tertawa bahagia kembali?

                Entah apa yang menyebabkan rasa rinduku meluap seperti saat ini. Detik ini. Entah, aku juga tak tahu. Padahal aku tak sedikitpun melakukan sesuatu yang mungkin bisa membuka memori otakku mengenai peristiwa-peristiwa dulu itu. Aku hanya baru saja……….membuka kembali kenangan kita yang dulu. Hanya melalui beberapa gambar hasil cetakan kamera tersebut, seketika memori otakku langsung menuju ke memori masa lampau. Masa dimana aku masih bersama kamu, kalian, dan mereka. Semua peristiwa yang pernah menimpaku tiba-tiba saja teringat jelas. Senyum, canda, tawa, tangis, bahagia, rindu, lelah, emosi. Ingatkah kalian?

                Aku tak ingin kembali ke masa itu. Tidak. Bukan karena aku tak rindu. Bukan. Aku sangat merindukan masa-masa itu. Tapi apa yang bisa kuharapkan dengan keinginan kembali ke masa-masa itu? Apa? Aku pasti hanya akan menambah prosen rinduku. Aku mungkin hanya akan merintih. Dan pasti aku akan menangis apabila berharap waktu itu akan datang lagi. Iya, kan? Kenyataannya tak bisa. Waktu akan terus berjalan. Tak akan bisa dihentikan oleh apapun.

                Semakin cepat waktu berjalan, semakin bertambah pula rasa rinduku akan kenangan itu. Aku sulit untuk menyadari bahwa aku sudah sebesar ini. Aku tak akan bisa lagi menjadi diriku yang dulu. Aku tak boleh berperilaku seperti itu. Aku malu pada waktu. Mungkin akulah satu-satunya seseorang yang paling sulit untuk melupakan sebuah peristiwa. Padahal, seiring berjalannya waktu, berapa juta peristiwa yang tercipta? Berapa juta kenangan yang akan memenuhi kembali memori otakku?

                Ya Allah, aku rindu………………….. Besar harapanku untuk bertemu kembali dengannya, dengan mereka. Suatu saat nanti. Ketika kami telah berhasil meraih apa yang kami impikan dan kami cita-citakan.




                                                                                Yunita LNA, 17th, siswi kls 12, yang masih sangat berharap menjadi seorang wartawan.

Jumat, 08 November 2013